The Same Fight: The Self-Paced Course

You are not fighting about what you are fighting about. This course takes the five steps from my book The Same Fight and turns them into fourteen short lessons you can work through alone or with your partner, at your own pace. Each lesson is a fifteen-minute teaching and one exercise you can do tonight. Section 1: The Fight Is Not About the Topic. Section 2: The Five Steps (name the pattern, trace the script, see the wound, not the weapon, build the skills, hold the line). Section 3: The Hard Cases (betrayal, desire and distance, parenting on the same team, stuck or done). Section 4: Ten Years Later. This is coaching, not therapy or counseling. Every couple in the lessons is a composite. If there is fear, coercion, violence, or active addiction in your relationship, please start with the resources in the final lesson and a licensed professional. Includes lifetime access, printable exercises, and a private invitation to a free 20-minute conversation with Danté Yigael, HVL Connect, when you finish.